Introduction:On the
last Sunday of the year, we celebrate the Feast of the Holy Family. We are
here to offer all the members of our own families on the altar for God’s
blessing. Today’s Gospel describes the holy family, how Joseph and Mary
protected the Child Jesus from the sword of King Herod by escaping with him to Egypt
Anecdote: We have heard of the
story about the Luck of Roaring Camp, and was written in 1868 by Bret Harte.
The story takes place in Roaring Camp, a camp of gruff, hard drinking,
fierce, gold diggers. The men would kill someone sooner than they would
ask a person his name. One day a pregnant and sick Indian lady stumbled
into the camp. When she went into labor, two of the men were decent
enough to try to help her. She died during the birth, but miraculously,
the child, a boy, survived. Now, deaths were common in Roaring Camp, but
a birth was something completely new. The men of the camp took
responsibility for the baby. They began taking turns taking care of
him. They decided to build him a clean cabin and even put in windows with
lace curtains. He was their baby and they were determined to give him a
proper home. The men took turns taking care of the baby. To hold
him and sing to him was considered a privilege. They demanded from each
other previously unheard of things such as decent language, quiet, cleanliness
and moral order. The men began to shed their roughness, their anger and
their selfishness. The little child transformed this outpost of rough,
crude miners into a community of generosity, tenderness and compassion.
The baby called forth from these reckless characters and criminals a dignity,
worth and sense of beauty, wonder and joy.
Explanation: Children will do that
to you and for you. Many young couples refine their lifestyles when a baby
comes. They want the baby to be brought up with the best they have, by
being the best people they can be. Many people who had been away from
church return to Church on a regular basis. They want their baby to grow up
with a real loving relationship to God and as a part of a worshiping
community. Children can bring out the best in their parents. And this is
what God has done for us through the birth of His son. With Jesus' birth,
our humanity is made sacred. He has called us from living self centered
lives to lives of compassion, peace and joy. Jesus Christ has transformed
humanity, making humanity sacred, just as He is sacred.
Holy Family-Our Model: To celebrate Jesus’
coming of age he attends the Temple
Bible class without
informing his parents. When his parents catch up with him after two days of
searching for him everywhere, all he tells them is, “Why were you
searching for me? Did you not know that I must be in my Father's house?”
(Luke 2:49). Even holy families do have their occasional tensions and
misunderstandings.
The narration of this incident ends with this: “Then
he went down with them and came to Nazareth ,
and was obedient to them” (v.51). The twelve-year old adult, Jesus, already
knows that his mission is to be in his Father’s house and be about his Father’s
business. From the test-run he did in Jerusalem earlier that day, it was clear
that he was already capable of doing it very well, because “all who
heard him were amazed at his understanding and his answers” (v. 47). The
puzzle then is this: If Jesus, already at the age of twelve, was ready to begin
his public mission, and was evidently well prepared for it, why would he go
down with his parents and spend the next eighteen years in the obscurity of a
carpenter’s shed only to begin his public ministry at the age of thirty? Were
those eighteen years wasted? Certainly not! In a way that is hard for us to
understand, Jesus’ hidden life in Nazareth
was as much a part of his earthly mission as his public life. We are reminded
that it was at this time that “Jesus increased in wisdom and in years, and
in divine and human favour” (v.52). And we reflect on the fact that for
every one year of his public life Jesus spent ten years in family life. So we
understand the importance and priority he gave to family life.
Joke: A wife was making a breakfast
of fried eggs for her husband. Suddenly, her husband burst into the kitchen.
'Careful,' he said, 'CAREFUL! Put in some more butter! Oh my gosh! You're
cooking too many at once. TOO MANY! Turn them! TURN THEM NOW! We need more
butter. Oh my gosh! WHERE are we going to get MORE BUTTER? They're going to
STICK! Careful. CAREFUL! I said be CAREFUL! You NEVER listen to me when you're
cooking! Never! Turn them! Hurry up! Are you CRAZY? Have you LOST your mind?
Don't forget to salt them. You know you always forget to salt them. Use the!
Salt. USE THE SALT! THE SALT!' The wife stared at him. 'What in the world is
wrong with you?You think I don't know how to fry a couple of eggs?' The husband
calmly replied, 'I just wanted to show you what it feels like when I'm
driving.'
Life messages: 1) We need to
learn lessons from the Holy Family: The Church encourages us to look
to the Family of Jesus, Mary and Joseph for inspiration, example and
encouragement. They were a model family in which
both parents worked hard, helped each other, understood and
accepted each other, and took good care of their Child so that He might
grow up not only in human knowledge but also as a Child of God.
2) We need to make the family a
confessional rather than a courtroom. A senior Judge of the
Supreme Court congratulated the bride and groom in a marriage with a pertinent
piece of advice: “See that you never convert your family into a courtroom;
instead let it be a confessional. If the husband and wife start arguing like
attorneys in an attempt to justify their behavior, their family becomes a
court of law and nobody wins. On the other hand, if the husband and
the wife -- as in a confessional -- are ready to admit their faults
and try to correct them, the family becomes a heavenly one.”
3) Marriage is a sacrament of holiness. Each
family is called to holiness. By the sacrament of marriage, Jesus sanctifies
not only the spouses but also the entire family. The husband and wife attain
holiness when they discharge their duties faithfully, trusting in God, and
drawing on the power of God by prayer.
Introduction:
Holy Family
Message:
Family
life is rooted in the unconditional love of God as witnessed by the Holy
Family.
Saints
and events in this week: 31-Thirty First-Tuesday-Saint Sylvester I,
Pope; January 1-First-Wednesday-Holy Day of Obligation;
2-Second-Thursday-Saints Basil the Great and Gregory Nazianzen, bishops, doctor
of the Church; 3-Third-Friday-The Most Holy Name of Jesus;
4-Fourth-Saturday-Saint Elizabeth Ann Seton, religious.